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An Artist living in Wonderland
From the places I lived and life I created.
The Story of a Little Girl from India and Her Artistic Dreams
Childhood and Early Dreams of an Artist
I grew up in India, surrounded by my loving family. My dad adored me and always showed immense faith in me, which I believe boosted my confidence in life. My mom was pretty strict, but I’m grateful for that because she taught me valuable life skills and how to make my way in the world. I wholeheartedly believe that your upbringing plays a major role in your life.
Fortunately, my household was modern, with hardly any restrictions. My dad was a general manager in a bank, and my mom was a housewife. My brother was talented in his own way, and I was the creative one. I saw art in everything. I remember making flowers from onion and orange peels, painting and crafting, collecting dry branches, feeding squirrels in the garden, creating flower pathways around the house, and playing dress-up with friends.
Bakul Tree Memories
Walking to school through a magical garden at six or seven years old is one of my strongest memories. It had a huge Bakul (Spanish Blossom) tree. I would sit under that tree, collect flowers, tie them with thread and put them in my hair, smell their fragrance, and watch them fall, completely lost in the moment. I truly felt at ease when I was with nature. It’s the one constant in my life. And that has never changed.
There are so many stories I’d like to share, and one day, I’ll write more about them. I was the entertainer at school and would happily perform at the teacher’s or friends’ request. Most teachers called me Kalakaar (meaning artist/creator), and friends called me Archu.
My Journey to the Big Stage and New Friendships
When I was 10 years old, my dad moved us to a bigger city. To get into a new school, the headmaster told me I had to sing in front of 5000 kids, and I did. Soon, I was fully devoted to editing the school magazine, organising school gatherings, and singing at major celebrations. The stage has been a big part of my life. I performed at festivals or whenever there was an opportunity.
At 14, I was invited to join the local theatre company. My dad left the decision up to me, which was a wonderful gift. I spent the next four or five years performing in stage shows, winning awards, and travelling for shows. That’s also where I met my best friend for life.
My Boy & Landing in Aotearoa
I received a bundle of joy—my lifeline—when I was 18. Becoming a mum was an indescribable joy, and we became best buddies for life. With the right choices and timing, we made our way to beautiful Aotearoa (New Zealand).
I was mesmerised by New Zealand’s beauty. As much as I missed my friends and family, I felt a deep sense of ease here. I met the most wonderful, kind, and warm-hearted people. Their way of life felt familiar, like a reflection of how I had always thought and lived. It didn’t take long to bond with Kiwis and build lifelong friendships. Over time, my love for this land grew stronger, and I knew I was home.
Life’s Philosophy Unfolded
Whenever I have to make big decisions, I ask myself if I am at peace with the situation I’m in and whether it will change anytime soon. I also consider whether my son is happy with my decisions and then go for it. Once I have those answers, it doesn’t take me long to decide and stick with it. I don’t dwell on the past. I stay focused and optimistic and can tackle any situation in life when it comes to my family. If I say so, then I have it… right?
For me to have this self-belief, a significant part of it comes from my dad, my mum, and now my son, who lets me be myself. I am deeply grateful for everything life has given me, challenged me with, and guided me through, as these experiences have only made me stronger, made me love life more, and made me feel comfortable with who I am and that I am good enough.
Innovative Mind & Artistic Opportunities
When I arrived in New Zealand, I realised it was a new country full of opportunities, and my innovative mind was working nonstop. As you know, everything takes time, and it did for me as well. On top of adjusting to a new country, I had a teenage son, no car, and faced many ups and downs. It took a while to get my personal life on track before I could focus on new ventures.
By 2005, I was ready to be an entrepreneur again. I started a graphic design business while studying small business management, which quickly converted into an art gallery. I began running art classes and workshops, teaching holistic Indian home remedies, and offering cooking workshops. I shared everything I knew, creating the best life I could for us.
Living Philosophy Through Experience
Then, in 2009, by accident, I came into the Bollywood event business. That is another fun story to tell, and you can read it on my blog. It has been a whirlwind of joy, colours, people, exploration, and magic that the Bollywood party brought to my life. My cultural roots have always been strong, and this has allowed me to blossom. I always felt really proud of India and respected the land that gave me life—a deep, meaningful sense of spirituality, holistic living, and Ayurveda.
At the same time, I am in love with New Zealand and want to give my best to anything that comes my way. It is my respect for this lovely country that opened its arms to me and my son.
Adapting and Changing Paths to be Here.
In 2020, my business was at its peak, and then COVID hit. I had to let go of my commercial studios, and everything changed. I’m glad I never lost faith and never had to close this beautiful business. By the end of 2020, the council changed the parameters for events, and I got a chance to organise the biggest events of my life.
As soon as the lockdown was lifted, my phone started ringing. I knew then that I could sustain the Bollywood Party and the Costume hire studio. With life’s twists and turns, I started organising multicultural events and art exhibitions and became a guest speaker at many events and festivals. There are a few books about wellness on their way, and I recently opened my wellness consultancy with a holistic spice blend business. To bring all that together, this website was created. It ties everything I do together, and it feels like the best path is moving forward.
A Heartfelt Thank You for your support.
Thank you very much for being here and reading to the end. I truly appreciate it. My favourite inspirational quote has been, “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” Isn’t that simple and amazingly summarised? It’s a reminder of all the stress and pressure we go through in life, which most likely we do in vain. I always think of this quote before I complain about anything.
As I continue on this journey, I am excited to share my experiences, knowledge, and passion with all of you. Whether it’s through events, art, or sharing wellness tips, I hope to inspire you and connect with you on a personal level.
Let’s walk through life’s challenges with open hearts and make the most of every opportunity together
5 fun facts about Anju
Favourite place:
Answer: It’s hard to pick just one. Whenever I talk about Queenstown or Lake Tekapo, I can almost feel the crisp South Island air and visualise the vibrant colours as if I were right there. And, of course, Paris, Vienna, Vanice and Jaipur have a special place in my heart, too.
Dream superpower:
Answer: The ability to talk to trees and mountains and get to know their stories. And fly to sunsets and chase the autumns around the world.
Daily non-negotiables:
Answer: A morning gratitude journal, hot water, soaked peeled almonds, fresh ginger tea, and a walk after every meal. And if I get a chance, I just look at the rain, flowers, lights, and shadows – in short, any part of nature.
Favourite memories of travel:
Answer: In Paris, I heard the best live music among the arches of the old buildings. Being in a gondola in Venice made me feel the happiest. Lake Wakatipu gives me nostalgic feelings, mostly in autumn and spring. 3 am having chai with my best friend in Jaipur, and so many more.
My biggest strengths include:
Answer: My ability to connect deeply with people from all walks of life, creative vision with the ability to turn ideas into reality, and everlasting optimism. Navigating life’s twists and turns with grace.
Whether it’s energising a corporate team, inspiring a community, or leading a cultural celebration, I don’t just motivate—I teach practical steps for change, backed by my extensive experience and passion for wellness, entrepreneurship, and cultural diversity. More…
Twenty-five years ago, I made peace with myself while living in different countries, deciding that I won’t complain, I won’t blame, and I won’t judge. This mindset helped me to have the right focus on the right things. Let’s Talk. I am truly a phone call or text away. More…
In addition to the topics above, I can also speak about Diwali, Hindu beliefs, arranged marriages, the history of India, Ayurveda, and simple living. Additionally, I cover subjects such as creating everyday rituals for a positive mind, manifestation, the importance of journaling, and gratitude practices.
Let’s talk – hello@anjudesai.co.nz
How I Can Help
Hi there!
It’s wonderful to connect with you here. As we become more aware of our mind-body-soul connection, we seek simple guidelines to understand holistic living. This involves mindful eating, daily mindfulness practices, and working on our manifestations. I was raised in an Ayurvedic holistic lifestyle and know how simplicity can create abundance for the soul and body. Let me help you change simple micro habits to create a soulful life or simply Join me at upcoming events.
With my passions for creativity, art, writing, coaching, and speaking, I’m excited to bring fresh and impressive ideas to your life. Let’s support our community together and bring the best out of them
Thank you for stopping by, and I look forward to catching up soon!
Anju Desai
What Our Clients Say - Art
Hi Anju I saw you speak y’day at Her festival. Thank you for your story. As a single parent and survivor of domestic violence your story resonated very strongly with me. You have also inspired me to believe in the next chapters of life and that one can start afresh. I’m finally getting my strength and power back as an independent woman and your description of returning to your creativity and regaining your spirit and strength has stuck with me ever since your talk. Thank you so much. Your resilience humility honesty and self belief was intoxicating. You have given me a huge amount of faith that starting again isn’t a negative but a positive opportunity. Thank you so much xx Sarah
Sarah Hodgetts
I was very inspired by your sharings and have really thought about the best action to demonstrate to my children. To be the inspiration for them as we are their role models so they be empowered to have healthy relationships in the future
Thank you very much and hope more people will get inspired by your story and thought and morels. 
Nicky Hartley
Thank you, Anju, and the wonderful women who took part. It was inspiring to listen to their stories.
Daryl Cole Curnow
Participating in the Auckland World of Cultures 2024 Women’s Forum was an enriching experience. Anju’s thorough and professional approach, coupled with her warm and authentic demeanour, made the event seamless and cohesive. The pre-event Zoom meetings fostered a sense of community and ensured we were well-prepared.
I felt in safe, experienced hands with Anju’s meticulous attention to detail and interpersonal skills. I wouldn’t hesitate to work with her again.
